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What do you say to someone who has just lost everything? Perhaps they’ve lost their possessions in a fire, their spouse has left them, or somebody close has passed away. <\/strong><\/p>\n
The question is, how do we even begin to comfort those that have been pushed into a devastating situation?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n
It’s hard to talk to people who have gone through a lot. You might feel that your words are hollow or meaningless. You might even have a hard time finding any words, as they feel lacking in the face of tragedy.<\/p>\n
However, if you go along with this idea, you might be leaving a person who needs you alone. Any expression of sympathy can be valuable during a tough time and, using the following scripts, you can make a positive impact.<\/p>\n
Let’s review some of the scripts you can use when talking to someone who has lost everything.<\/p>\n
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\nI love you and I care about you. I am so sorry this happened. I will be here for you to help and support you in anything you need. Please know that I am your friend.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Just showing your love is very important.\u00a0 It might feel like a small thing when the person is in pain or has lost so much but it is the most meaningful thing you can offer. Let the person know about your feelings and that you truly care for them.<\/p>\n
Sometimes, it can be difficult to say, especially if you have not used these words before or if you tend to avoid the \u201cl-word\u201d. But this will only add to the meaning of the interaction.<\/p>\n
If you are sincere and put emotion into the words, you will surely reach the person.<\/p>\n
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2 | Let Them Know That You Are There to Listen<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\nHey,\u00a0 I wish there was more I can do but I am here if you want to talk. You can reach out to me whenver, and I mean that. If it’s a year from now, I will still be here.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Listening is a valuable experience to offer to someone. It might not seem like it but it is. People will always appreciate someone who is there to listen without judgment or provide a shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\n
You may want to use this script if you don’t have other ways to help but remember that it has a lot of value. If you can be a good listener, you will offer hope.<\/p>\n
Sometimes, people are not ready to talk or may isolate themselves in the wake of a loss. This can make them feel worried about the future and when they come back, they might feel unsure of who to reach out to.<\/p>\n
By saying that you will be around long-term, you are giving them hope and offering a path back to their relationships.<\/p>\n
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