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The easiest way to get someone talking is to ask them about something they are passionate about; their goal, hobby, favorite place, or someone they love. When people talk about topics they love, they can keep going making the conversation flow more naturally. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
To find out what people are passionate about, ask questions like what somebody does during their free time, what hobbies or goals they might have. They may not open up all at once so, keep on asking them questions related to it.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>2<\/span><\/span> | Be a Great L<\/span><\/span>istener\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
We all have this tendency to zone out of any dull conversation and open windows of our minds to a memory, idea, or scenario. But if you are interested in keeping the conversation going, you must avoid letting your mind drift and actually listen to the person who is talking. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The smooth talker is usually someone who remembers things about others and low and behold we usually find things out about other people through listening. <\/span><\/span>W<\/span><\/span>hen the other person is telling you about their family, work, etc. pay close attention to what <\/span><\/span>they are<\/span><\/span> saying, and instead of saying \u201chmm..<\/span><\/span>.,<\/span><\/span>\u201d ask related questions.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>3<\/span><\/span> | What Kind of Movies\/books\/music\/activities Do\u00a0They Like?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
The quickest way to bond with a stranger is if the answer\u00a0<\/span><\/span>to<\/span><\/span>\u00a0this question is somewhat of your interest. Let\u2019s say you ask someone about their favorite book? And the answer\u00a0<\/span><\/span>to<\/span><\/span>\u00a0that book is a song of ice and fire. Whoa! That\u2019s something you have read too. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
So, now you can go hours and hours about discussing different characters, scenes<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0and author. And the same goes for music, movies<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and TV shows. Well, the best part is that people feel quite comfortable discussing these things even with someone they don’t know very well.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack\u00a0<\/span><\/span>4<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Good Conversation is a Lot Like Tennis<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
Till now, we have put a lot of stress on asking interesting questions instead of generic ones. But these generic questions are always the ones that act as a conversation starter.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>W<\/span><\/span>henever you meet a new person at the party, keep on asking these generic questions until you stumble upon something interesting. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Do not stress too much about what to ask and what not to. Just try to avoid questions that are too personal, that\u2019s all. And also, don\u2019t fret too much about putting words into the sentences to make it either funny or insightful. Be friendly, and that will work.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>5<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Answer Their Generic Questions Elaborately<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
If you want the other person to answer your questions other than \u201cFine,\u201d \u201cThat\u2019s good,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s Okay,\u201d etc.\u00a0 You should avoid doing that too. The more you talk freely with them, the more they will open up to you. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
So even if they ask you about how is your job, instead of replying with it\u2019s going\u00a0<\/span><\/span>well<\/span><\/span>, add a bit detail of how much you love working for people in need or how stressful the accounting work is. This way they might be able to relate and will tell you about their work problems too.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>6<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be\u00a0Genuinely\u00a0Interested in the Lives of the People You\u2019re Talking to\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
This question may seem like a very generic question like asking someone what\u00a0<\/span><\/span>they doing these days are,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0but believe me<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0this question has a much\u00a0<\/span><\/span>strong<\/span><\/span>er effect. And it\u2019s because we don\u2019t talk about the important issues\u00a0<\/span><\/span>mostly<\/span><\/span> like we are always concerned about the job, college, health but we somehow forget to ask that how are you emotionally? <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
What is the thing that bothers you? Are you tired of being so strong? What keeps you going?\u00a0 So when you ask a person about how is your life going, it gives an unintentional signal of asking them to <\/span><\/span>speak their inner truth.<\/span><\/span> And the probability of them opening up with you will be a lot more as compared to those basic questions.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>7<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Spare the Elaborate Details in Favor of Focusing on Adding Value to the Conversation<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To key to a healthy conversation is that both individuals take an active part in it. So, when it\u2019s your turn to talk, and they ask you some questions about your last trip. It\u2019s okay if you tell them about how long your stay was and the places you have visited and even if you have one or two interesting incidents that took place. But don\u2019t overdo it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
If, at any instance, you think that the other person is getting bored with the conversation skip your part and ask them about their latest trip. You know to make them talk because, to be honest, no one likes a self-absorbed person.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>8<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Talk About Their Previous School or Job<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To carry on the small talks, you are supposed to make the other person\u00a0<\/span><\/span>an\u00a0<\/span><\/span>active part\u00a0<\/span><\/span>of<\/span><\/span>\u00a0the conversation<\/span><\/span>. So, what\u2019s better than asking them light questions about their past. Like where were they born or where they studied, what subjects they opt for etc. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
But remember not to ask too many personal questions. And if at any stage you feel that the person is a bit reluctant to answer, just back off. Because making them feel uncomfortable is the last thing you want to do.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>9<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Discuss\u00a0Trending Topics\u00a0on Social Media\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
With the ongoing craze of social media, there is always something new to talk about; the trending hashtag on Twitter, the new video on YouTube, <\/span><\/span>and any<\/span><\/span>\u00a0new meme on Facebook<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0etc. There is always something. So why not use these topics to start over your left off conversation with the stranger sitting next to you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>10<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be Refreshingly Honest and Admit Ignorance Allowing Others to Take the Stage<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
S<\/span><\/span>uppose you were asking about the other person’s interest, and it turned out to be racing cars, but unfortunately, it\u2019s not your domain. So instead of pretending that you know about it and nodding, you head continuously; be open about it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Say something like, \u201cOh! Well, that\u2019s something I don\u2019t know anything about it at all.\u201d\u00a0 This way maybe you move on to the next interest. Or you can also stick to this one and ask them to tell you the details about it for beginners.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>11<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> When All Else Fails, Reach for Current Affairs or the Weather\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\n
Small talk can be boring<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> but it can be turned into something far more interesting when you ask people about their opinion on a certain topic. That\u2019s like opening up a gate for debate.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack 12 | Open-mindedness is a Highly Coveted Trait, Show That You Can Respectfully Disagree but See the World From Another Person\u2019s Perspective<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\nWhenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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The quickest way to bond with a stranger is if the answer\u00a0<\/span><\/span>to<\/span><\/span>\u00a0this question is somewhat of your interest. Let\u2019s say you ask someone about their favorite book? And the answer\u00a0<\/span><\/span>to<\/span><\/span>\u00a0that book is a song of ice and fire. Whoa! That\u2019s something you have read too. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
So, now you can go hours and hours about discussing different characters, scenes<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0and author. And the same goes for music, movies<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and TV shows. Well, the best part is that people feel quite comfortable discussing these things even with someone they don’t know very well.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack\u00a0<\/span><\/span>4<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Good Conversation is a Lot Like Tennis<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
Till now, we have put a lot of stress on asking interesting questions instead of generic ones. But these generic questions are always the ones that act as a conversation starter.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>W<\/span><\/span>henever you meet a new person at the party, keep on asking these generic questions until you stumble upon something interesting. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Do not stress too much about what to ask and what not to. Just try to avoid questions that are too personal, that\u2019s all. And also, don\u2019t fret too much about putting words into the sentences to make it either funny or insightful. Be friendly, and that will work.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>5<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Answer Their Generic Questions Elaborately<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
If you want the other person to answer your questions other than \u201cFine,\u201d \u201cThat\u2019s good,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s Okay,\u201d etc.\u00a0 You should avoid doing that too. The more you talk freely with them, the more they will open up to you. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
So even if they ask you about how is your job, instead of replying with it\u2019s going\u00a0<\/span><\/span>well<\/span><\/span>, add a bit detail of how much you love working for people in need or how stressful the accounting work is. This way they might be able to relate and will tell you about their work problems too.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>6<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be\u00a0Genuinely\u00a0Interested in the Lives of the People You\u2019re Talking to\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
This question may seem like a very generic question like asking someone what\u00a0<\/span><\/span>they doing these days are,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0but believe me<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0this question has a much\u00a0<\/span><\/span>strong<\/span><\/span>er effect. And it\u2019s because we don\u2019t talk about the important issues\u00a0<\/span><\/span>mostly<\/span><\/span> like we are always concerned about the job, college, health but we somehow forget to ask that how are you emotionally? <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
What is the thing that bothers you? Are you tired of being so strong? What keeps you going?\u00a0 So when you ask a person about how is your life going, it gives an unintentional signal of asking them to <\/span><\/span>speak their inner truth.<\/span><\/span> And the probability of them opening up with you will be a lot more as compared to those basic questions.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>7<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Spare the Elaborate Details in Favor of Focusing on Adding Value to the Conversation<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To key to a healthy conversation is that both individuals take an active part in it. So, when it\u2019s your turn to talk, and they ask you some questions about your last trip. It\u2019s okay if you tell them about how long your stay was and the places you have visited and even if you have one or two interesting incidents that took place. But don\u2019t overdo it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
If, at any instance, you think that the other person is getting bored with the conversation skip your part and ask them about their latest trip. You know to make them talk because, to be honest, no one likes a self-absorbed person.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>8<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Talk About Their Previous School or Job<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To carry on the small talks, you are supposed to make the other person\u00a0<\/span><\/span>an\u00a0<\/span><\/span>active part\u00a0<\/span><\/span>of<\/span><\/span>\u00a0the conversation<\/span><\/span>. So, what\u2019s better than asking them light questions about their past. Like where were they born or where they studied, what subjects they opt for etc. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
But remember not to ask too many personal questions. And if at any stage you feel that the person is a bit reluctant to answer, just back off. Because making them feel uncomfortable is the last thing you want to do.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>9<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Discuss\u00a0Trending Topics\u00a0on Social Media\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
With the ongoing craze of social media, there is always something new to talk about; the trending hashtag on Twitter, the new video on YouTube, <\/span><\/span>and any<\/span><\/span>\u00a0new meme on Facebook<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0etc. There is always something. So why not use these topics to start over your left off conversation with the stranger sitting next to you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>10<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be Refreshingly Honest and Admit Ignorance Allowing Others to Take the Stage<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
S<\/span><\/span>uppose you were asking about the other person’s interest, and it turned out to be racing cars, but unfortunately, it\u2019s not your domain. So instead of pretending that you know about it and nodding, you head continuously; be open about it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Say something like, \u201cOh! Well, that\u2019s something I don\u2019t know anything about it at all.\u201d\u00a0 This way maybe you move on to the next interest. Or you can also stick to this one and ask them to tell you the details about it for beginners.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>11<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> When All Else Fails, Reach for Current Affairs or the Weather\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\n
Small talk can be boring<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> but it can be turned into something far more interesting when you ask people about their opinion on a certain topic. That\u2019s like opening up a gate for debate.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack 12 | Open-mindedness is a Highly Coveted Trait, Show That You Can Respectfully Disagree but See the World From Another Person\u2019s Perspective<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\nWhenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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If you want the other person to answer your questions other than \u201cFine,\u201d \u201cThat\u2019s good,\u201d \u201cIt\u2019s Okay,\u201d etc.\u00a0 You should avoid doing that too. The more you talk freely with them, the more they will open up to you. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
So even if they ask you about how is your job, instead of replying with it\u2019s going\u00a0<\/span><\/span>well<\/span><\/span>, add a bit detail of how much you love working for people in need or how stressful the accounting work is. This way they might be able to relate and will tell you about their work problems too.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>6<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be\u00a0Genuinely\u00a0Interested in the Lives of the People You\u2019re Talking to\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
This question may seem like a very generic question like asking someone what\u00a0<\/span><\/span>they doing these days are,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0but believe me<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0this question has a much\u00a0<\/span><\/span>strong<\/span><\/span>er effect. And it\u2019s because we don\u2019t talk about the important issues\u00a0<\/span><\/span>mostly<\/span><\/span> like we are always concerned about the job, college, health but we somehow forget to ask that how are you emotionally? <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
What is the thing that bothers you? Are you tired of being so strong? What keeps you going?\u00a0 So when you ask a person about how is your life going, it gives an unintentional signal of asking them to <\/span><\/span>speak their inner truth.<\/span><\/span> And the probability of them opening up with you will be a lot more as compared to those basic questions.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>7<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Spare the Elaborate Details in Favor of Focusing on Adding Value to the Conversation<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To key to a healthy conversation is that both individuals take an active part in it. So, when it\u2019s your turn to talk, and they ask you some questions about your last trip. It\u2019s okay if you tell them about how long your stay was and the places you have visited and even if you have one or two interesting incidents that took place. But don\u2019t overdo it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
If, at any instance, you think that the other person is getting bored with the conversation skip your part and ask them about their latest trip. You know to make them talk because, to be honest, no one likes a self-absorbed person.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>8<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Talk About Their Previous School or Job<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To carry on the small talks, you are supposed to make the other person\u00a0<\/span><\/span>an\u00a0<\/span><\/span>active part\u00a0<\/span><\/span>of<\/span><\/span>\u00a0the conversation<\/span><\/span>. So, what\u2019s better than asking them light questions about their past. Like where were they born or where they studied, what subjects they opt for etc. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
But remember not to ask too many personal questions. And if at any stage you feel that the person is a bit reluctant to answer, just back off. Because making them feel uncomfortable is the last thing you want to do.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>9<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Discuss\u00a0Trending Topics\u00a0on Social Media\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
With the ongoing craze of social media, there is always something new to talk about; the trending hashtag on Twitter, the new video on YouTube, <\/span><\/span>and any<\/span><\/span>\u00a0new meme on Facebook<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0etc. There is always something. So why not use these topics to start over your left off conversation with the stranger sitting next to you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>10<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be Refreshingly Honest and Admit Ignorance Allowing Others to Take the Stage<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
S<\/span><\/span>uppose you were asking about the other person’s interest, and it turned out to be racing cars, but unfortunately, it\u2019s not your domain. So instead of pretending that you know about it and nodding, you head continuously; be open about it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Say something like, \u201cOh! Well, that\u2019s something I don\u2019t know anything about it at all.\u201d\u00a0 This way maybe you move on to the next interest. Or you can also stick to this one and ask them to tell you the details about it for beginners.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>11<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> When All Else Fails, Reach for Current Affairs or the Weather\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\n
Small talk can be boring<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> but it can be turned into something far more interesting when you ask people about their opinion on a certain topic. That\u2019s like opening up a gate for debate.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack 12 | Open-mindedness is a Highly Coveted Trait, Show That You Can Respectfully Disagree but See the World From Another Person\u2019s Perspective<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\nWhenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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To key to a healthy conversation is that both individuals take an active part in it. So, when it\u2019s your turn to talk, and they ask you some questions about your last trip. It\u2019s okay if you tell them about how long your stay was and the places you have visited and even if you have one or two interesting incidents that took place. But don\u2019t overdo it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
If, at any instance, you think that the other person is getting bored with the conversation skip your part and ask them about their latest trip. You know to make them talk because, to be honest, no one likes a self-absorbed person.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>8<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Talk About Their Previous School or Job<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
To carry on the small talks, you are supposed to make the other person\u00a0<\/span><\/span>an\u00a0<\/span><\/span>active part\u00a0<\/span><\/span>of<\/span><\/span>\u00a0the conversation<\/span><\/span>. So, what\u2019s better than asking them light questions about their past. Like where were they born or where they studied, what subjects they opt for etc. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
But remember not to ask too many personal questions. And if at any stage you feel that the person is a bit reluctant to answer, just back off. Because making them feel uncomfortable is the last thing you want to do.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>9<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Discuss\u00a0Trending Topics\u00a0on Social Media\u200b<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
With the ongoing craze of social media, there is always something new to talk about; the trending hashtag on Twitter, the new video on YouTube, <\/span><\/span>and any<\/span><\/span>\u00a0new meme on Facebook<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0etc. There is always something. So why not use these topics to start over your left off conversation with the stranger sitting next to you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>10<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be Refreshingly Honest and Admit Ignorance Allowing Others to Take the Stage<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
S<\/span><\/span>uppose you were asking about the other person’s interest, and it turned out to be racing cars, but unfortunately, it\u2019s not your domain. So instead of pretending that you know about it and nodding, you head continuously; be open about it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Say something like, \u201cOh! Well, that\u2019s something I don\u2019t know anything about it at all.\u201d\u00a0 This way maybe you move on to the next interest. Or you can also stick to this one and ask them to tell you the details about it for beginners.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>11<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> When All Else Fails, Reach for Current Affairs or the Weather\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\n
Small talk can be boring<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> but it can be turned into something far more interesting when you ask people about their opinion on a certain topic. That\u2019s like opening up a gate for debate.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack 12 | Open-mindedness is a Highly Coveted Trait, Show That You Can Respectfully Disagree but See the World From Another Person\u2019s Perspective<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\nWhenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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With the ongoing craze of social media, there is always something new to talk about; the trending hashtag on Twitter, the new video on YouTube, <\/span><\/span>and any<\/span><\/span>\u00a0new meme on Facebook<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span>\u00a0etc. There is always something. So why not use these topics to start over your left off conversation with the stranger sitting next to you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>10<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> Be Refreshingly Honest and Admit Ignorance Allowing Others to Take the Stage<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n <\/p>\n
S<\/span><\/span>uppose you were asking about the other person’s interest, and it turned out to be racing cars, but unfortunately, it\u2019s not your domain. So instead of pretending that you know about it and nodding, you head continuously; be open about it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
Say something like, \u201cOh! Well, that\u2019s something I don\u2019t know anything about it at all.\u201d\u00a0 This way maybe you move on to the next interest. Or you can also stick to this one and ask them to tell you the details about it for beginners.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack <\/span><\/span>11<\/span><\/span>\u00a0|<\/span><\/span> When All Else Fails, Reach for Current Affairs or the Weather\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\n
Small talk can be boring<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> but it can be turned into something far more interesting when you ask people about their opinion on a certain topic. That\u2019s like opening up a gate for debate.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack 12 | Open-mindedness is a Highly Coveted Trait, Show That You Can Respectfully Disagree but See the World From Another Person\u2019s Perspective<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\nWhenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Small talk can be boring<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> but it can be turned into something far more interesting when you ask people about their opinion on a certain topic. That\u2019s like opening up a gate for debate.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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Hack 12 | Open-mindedness is a Highly Coveted Trait, Show That You Can Respectfully Disagree but See the World From Another Person\u2019s Perspective<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h4>\nWhenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
Whenever you are having\u00a0<\/span><\/span>a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>debate on a\u00a0<\/span><\/span>particular topic<\/span><\/span>, there will likely be someone who will hold an<\/span><\/span> opposite opinion to yours.<\/span><\/span> Understand that it is oka<\/span><\/span>y to hold different opinions because<\/span><\/span>\u00a0people are different. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
The opinion or moral ethics you hold is because of the environment you<\/span><\/span>\u00a0were<\/span><\/span>\u00a0brought up<\/span><\/span>\u00a0in<\/span><\/span>, the lessons you were taught as a kid, the books you read<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and the friends you met. But in no way, it is going to be similar for others so, instead of panicking and stepping back into the awkward silence phase. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
You can think of the ways to counteract it by changing the subject gradually or questioning them about their stance etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Every individual is an interest<\/span><\/span>ing<\/span><\/span> book. So, reserve judgement about them<\/span><\/span>,<\/span><\/span> and try to find out a little bit more.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
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We hope that the next time you have to go to the gathering of people you hardly\u00a0<\/span><\/span>know<\/span><\/span>;<\/span><\/span> you don\u2019t find yourself in the corner but instead enjoy your time socializing and maybe even come out with a new friend or two! <\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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