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To have someone close to you is a feeling everyone yearns for at some point in life. These kinds of relationships, whether platonic or romantic, are necessary for that personal connection and growth that we all need. However, everyone also needs their private space, free from interference.<\/p>\n
If you feel that someone is becoming too close to you and that you never seem to have time for yourself, simply to be alone and to do whatever you want, then it’s time to take action. It’s far better to be open and honest with someone, than to try to give subtle hints that go unnoticed or to become frustrated or hostile, without actually explaining how you feel.<\/strong><\/p>\n
The following templates can be used to explain clearly that you need your own personal space, without offending the other person.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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\nDear [Insert Name],<\/strong><\/h5>\n
We’ve been spending such a lot of time together recently, and I’ve grown so close to you. I really enjoy the time together, and I know you do too. It’s been so tempting to want to spend absolutely all our time together, but I think that this isn\u2019t really the best idea in the long term. <\/strong><\/h5>\n
I know that I’m beginning to feel that I need a little more space, and some time alone, so that I can be myself, and have time to spend on myself. I’m not unhappy in any way, but I do feel that a little more space in our relationship would be good for both of us. <\/strong><\/h5>\n
After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and spending more time apart will make us really appreciate the time we do spend together. <\/strong><\/h5>\n
[Your Name]<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
This template explains that it is not as if your partner or friend irritates you. They are not the problem, and neither are you. Time alone is what you need.<\/p>\n
The message here is quite direct. Pretending that you enjoy a friend\u2019s presence when you know this is not the truth is like living a lie. It’s better to be honest, whilst still being respectful and sensitive to the other person’s feelings, than to carry on doing something that makes you unhappy or uncomfortable.<\/p>\n
It’s possible to explain your need for space in a way that shows it will ultimately strengthen your relationship, so do consider your words carefully when you broach the subject.<\/p>\n
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