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Do you ever wish you could be a natural at chatting to women? You might be surprised to learn it\u2019s actually simpler to do than you imagine.<\/p>\n
Half of the challenge involves being brave enough to just approach a group of women and engage them in conversation\u2026 the other half involves knowing the right thing to say. Luckily, when you’re armed with the right conversation starters, things will tend to take care of themselves and you\u2019ll find it much easier to stay cool.<\/p>\n
Speaking with a group of women without coming across as creepy is actually all about being relaxed and friendly. Just focus on striking up a friendly conversation. The more relaxed you are at first, the better you\u2019ll be able to focus on saying the right thing!<\/strong><\/p>\n
With that in mind, this article offers you some foolproof templates that will help you approach women in a relaxed and friendly way, without appearing creepy.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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\nHi there,<\/h4>\n
I hope you don\u2019t mind me interrupting you. My friends are over in the corner there, but they are having a really big conversation about the latest cricket scores, and that\u2019s just not my thing.<\/h4>\n
You all looked to be having such a good time chatting here, that I wondered if I could join you?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
This template suggests that you are interested in fun and lively conversation, and in the group as a whole, rather than in one specific person in the group. By suggesting that you’re not interested in sport, or whatever topic your male friends are discussing, you are implying that you think you’ll have much more in common with this group. Always respect the group’s decision if they say no.<\/p>\n
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Script 2 | \u201cYou All Look So Good, I Bet All the Creeps Won\u2019t Leave You Alone!\u201d <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\nHey there,<\/h4>\n
My name is [Insert Name], and I just wanted to say that you all look amazing this evening. I’m sure you all get a lot of unwanted attention, looking as stunning as you do, so if you’re looking for someone to shield you from those guys, maybe I could help?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
This approach does require a degree of confidence. By acknowledging the problem of creepy guys trying to attract women, you are distancing yourself from that image, and suggesting that you are completely different. If you are invited to chat with the group, keep the conversation fun and gentle, and don’t immediately try to chat to one specific woman that you’re interested in!<\/p>\n
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