\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nDid you see that program on binge drinking the other day?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If you know someone who is perhaps teetering on the edge of having a serious alcohol problem, it might be worth gently raising the subject of alcohol misuse or abuse. By bringing the subject up in a chatty way like this, you can suggest that this is a problem that affects all kinds of people of all ages, and from all walks of life. <\/span><\/p>\n
Your friend or relative may not yet be ready to acknowledge that they have a problem, and if this is the case, all you can do is talk about the topic in general. Perhaps outline that the TV program showed how easy it was to find yourself drinking too much, go through exactly what constitutes \u2018too much\u2019, and explain what support options the show had covered.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 2 | For the Gambler<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nA friend of mine used to have a little flutter on the horses, and it spiralled out of control. Now he\u2019s seeing a gambling counsellor and he\u2019s got his life back on track.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
We often advise that using the experience of another friend or acquaintance can be a useful way to introduce a difficult conversation. It\u2019s always important to ensure that the example you give has a positive outcome, so that you don\u2019t simply weigh down the person you are trying to help with negativity and worry. <\/span><\/p>\n
In the example above, you are explaining a number of things – that problems with gambling can start with something very small and innocent, and can spiral very quickly; that problems like this are fairly common and can happen to anyone; and that there is always a solution to any problem, if you\u2019re prepared to look for it.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 3 | For the Slacker<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nI heard that the boss is keeping a close eye on everyone, to identify candidates for promotion or redundancy…<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If you have a colleague who has become very cavalier in their attitude to work, with poor timekeeping, sloppy performance and an all-round bad attitude, it might be worth dropping a few hints that all of this may not be going unnoticed. <\/span><\/p>\n
Whether your hint leans towards encouragement, with the lure of promotions, or it warns of the threat of redundancy, depends on your own workplace and the particular environment you find yourself in. <\/span>With difficult situations like this, it\u2019s always better to try a subtle approach first, before moving on to any more direct route to calling out this poor attitude.<\/span><\/p>\n
It might also be worth trying to work out why your colleague has suddenly developed this poor attitude at work – is there some bigger problem that has caused this change, and does your colleague need support with that, or a friendly ear to help them work through their issues?<\/p>\n
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Script 4 | For the Party Animal<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nI don\u2019t know how you have the time or energy to party so hard, especially when there are so many other great ways to spend your time.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If a relative or friend seems to be spending an inordinate amount of time out partying, and it\u2019s beginning to have an effect on their health, finances or mental wellbeing, it may be time to voice your concerns in a gentle and respectful way. <\/span><\/p>\n
It\u2019s likely that they believe they are having a great time, so suggesting that going out every night is a waste of time and money is unlikely to be successful. Your mission is to show your friend or relative that there are other ways to spend your leisure time, that are healthier and more balanced. <\/span><\/p>\n
Ask them to go along to a new yoga class maybe, or arrange to host a dinner party one weekend, with all of your friends. Build on any success with further invitations to do alternative things, suggesting that you really value their support in coming along with you. <\/span><\/p>\n
Hopefully, over time, your friend or relative will start to compare the shallow pleasures of going out drinking and partying with more long-lasting enjoyment to be found from a wider range of social activities.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 5 | For the Love Addict<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nDating so many new people all the time sounds like fun, but how do you give yourself enough time to meet that special person?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\nPressure to fit in with friends and the proliferation of online dating sites mean that many people find themselves on something of a conveyor belt of new dates, constantly hooking up with yet another person, and filling their week with meaningless dates and instantly forgettable encounters. <\/span><\/p>\n
If you\u2019re concerned that someone you care about is risking their health and mental wellbeing by dating way too many people, it\u2019s time to step in and say something. But how do you do this without upsetting them, or implying that they are behaving recklessly? <\/span><\/p>\n
In the example given above, the topic is introduced in a light and supportive way – suggesting that having so many dates sounds like a lot of fun. But then comes a very subtle hint that this constant dating may lead to missing out on a really meaningful relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n
By introducing the idea that if your friend relaxes and enjoys being single, they might then meet some more suitable people to get to know, you can help get them off the dating rollercoaster, so that they can enjoy a more balanced and fulfilling social life.<\/span><\/p>\n
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It\u2019s hard to stand at the sidelines whilst someone important to you seems to make a mess of their life through poor choices, but it\u2019s also hard to find the right words to help them see for themselves what they are doing. Take time to think about your approach, and don\u2019t be tempted to spell out the negative implications of their behavior, in order to avoid alienating them. With a little gentle persuasion, using these templates as a guide, you should be able to get your message across.<\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
Did you see that program on binge drinking the other day?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If you know someone who is perhaps teetering on the edge of having a serious alcohol problem, it might be worth gently raising the subject of alcohol misuse or abuse. By bringing the subject up in a chatty way like this, you can suggest that this is a problem that affects all kinds of people of all ages, and from all walks of life. <\/span><\/p>\n
Your friend or relative may not yet be ready to acknowledge that they have a problem, and if this is the case, all you can do is talk about the topic in general. Perhaps outline that the TV program showed how easy it was to find yourself drinking too much, go through exactly what constitutes \u2018too much\u2019, and explain what support options the show had covered.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 2 | For the Gambler<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nA friend of mine used to have a little flutter on the horses, and it spiralled out of control. Now he\u2019s seeing a gambling counsellor and he\u2019s got his life back on track.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
We often advise that using the experience of another friend or acquaintance can be a useful way to introduce a difficult conversation. It\u2019s always important to ensure that the example you give has a positive outcome, so that you don\u2019t simply weigh down the person you are trying to help with negativity and worry. <\/span><\/p>\n
In the example above, you are explaining a number of things – that problems with gambling can start with something very small and innocent, and can spiral very quickly; that problems like this are fairly common and can happen to anyone; and that there is always a solution to any problem, if you\u2019re prepared to look for it.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 3 | For the Slacker<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nI heard that the boss is keeping a close eye on everyone, to identify candidates for promotion or redundancy…<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If you have a colleague who has become very cavalier in their attitude to work, with poor timekeeping, sloppy performance and an all-round bad attitude, it might be worth dropping a few hints that all of this may not be going unnoticed. <\/span><\/p>\n
Whether your hint leans towards encouragement, with the lure of promotions, or it warns of the threat of redundancy, depends on your own workplace and the particular environment you find yourself in. <\/span>With difficult situations like this, it\u2019s always better to try a subtle approach first, before moving on to any more direct route to calling out this poor attitude.<\/span><\/p>\n
It might also be worth trying to work out why your colleague has suddenly developed this poor attitude at work – is there some bigger problem that has caused this change, and does your colleague need support with that, or a friendly ear to help them work through their issues?<\/p>\n
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Script 4 | For the Party Animal<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nI don\u2019t know how you have the time or energy to party so hard, especially when there are so many other great ways to spend your time.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If a relative or friend seems to be spending an inordinate amount of time out partying, and it\u2019s beginning to have an effect on their health, finances or mental wellbeing, it may be time to voice your concerns in a gentle and respectful way. <\/span><\/p>\n
It\u2019s likely that they believe they are having a great time, so suggesting that going out every night is a waste of time and money is unlikely to be successful. Your mission is to show your friend or relative that there are other ways to spend your leisure time, that are healthier and more balanced. <\/span><\/p>\n
Ask them to go along to a new yoga class maybe, or arrange to host a dinner party one weekend, with all of your friends. Build on any success with further invitations to do alternative things, suggesting that you really value their support in coming along with you. <\/span><\/p>\n
Hopefully, over time, your friend or relative will start to compare the shallow pleasures of going out drinking and partying with more long-lasting enjoyment to be found from a wider range of social activities.<\/span><\/p>\n
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This article was originally published on <\/i>https:\/\/www.nevertherightword.com<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/strong>. If this article appears on any other site other than <\/i>https:\/\/www.nevertherightword.com<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/strong> without clear referencing it is a violation of the copyright owned by <\/i>https:\/\/www.nevertherightword.com<\/i><\/span><\/a><\/strong>.<\/i><\/p>\n
This article may contain affiliate links. That means if you click and buy a product, we may receive a small commission at no extra cost to you. <\/span><\/em>Never the Right Word is a participant in the Awin Affiliates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to participating merchants.<\/span><\/em>\u00a0For more information, please view our <\/span><\/em>Privacy Policy and Earnings Disclosure page.<\/em><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n
Script 5 | For the Love Addict<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u00a0<\/h2>\n\nDating so many new people all the time sounds like fun, but how do you give yourself enough time to meet that special person?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\nPressure to fit in with friends and the proliferation of online dating sites mean that many people find themselves on something of a conveyor belt of new dates, constantly hooking up with yet another person, and filling their week with meaningless dates and instantly forgettable encounters. <\/span><\/p>\n
If you\u2019re concerned that someone you care about is risking their health and mental wellbeing by dating way too many people, it\u2019s time to step in and say something. But how do you do this without upsetting them, or implying that they are behaving recklessly? <\/span><\/p>\n
In the example given above, the topic is introduced in a light and supportive way – suggesting that having so many dates sounds like a lot of fun. But then comes a very subtle hint that this constant dating may lead to missing out on a really meaningful relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n
By introducing the idea that if your friend relaxes and enjoys being single, they might then meet some more suitable people to get to know, you can help get them off the dating rollercoaster, so that they can enjoy a more balanced and fulfilling social life.<\/span><\/p>\n
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It\u2019s hard to stand at the sidelines whilst someone important to you seems to make a mess of their life through poor choices, but it\u2019s also hard to find the right words to help them see for themselves what they are doing. Take time to think about your approach, and don\u2019t be tempted to spell out the negative implications of their behavior, in order to avoid alienating them. With a little gentle persuasion, using these templates as a guide, you should be able to get your message across.<\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re interested in further reading, we\u2019ve also included links to our trusted resources and related posts below. To find out more\u00a0about NTRW<\/b><\/span><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0our\u00a0recommended tools<\/b><\/span><\/a>,<\/b> you can do that\u00a0here<\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
\nA friend of mine used to have a little flutter on the horses, and it spiralled out of control. Now he\u2019s seeing a gambling counsellor and he\u2019s got his life back on track.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
We often advise that using the experience of another friend or acquaintance can be a useful way to introduce a difficult conversation. It\u2019s always important to ensure that the example you give has a positive outcome, so that you don\u2019t simply weigh down the person you are trying to help with negativity and worry. <\/span><\/p>\n
In the example above, you are explaining a number of things – that problems with gambling can start with something very small and innocent, and can spiral very quickly; that problems like this are fairly common and can happen to anyone; and that there is always a solution to any problem, if you\u2019re prepared to look for it.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 3 | For the Slacker<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\u00a0<\/h2>\n
\nI heard that the boss is keeping a close eye on everyone, to identify candidates for promotion or redundancy…<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If you have a colleague who has become very cavalier in their attitude to work, with poor timekeeping, sloppy performance and an all-round bad attitude, it might be worth dropping a few hints that all of this may not be going unnoticed. <\/span><\/p>\n
Whether your hint leans towards encouragement, with the lure of promotions, or it warns of the threat of redundancy, depends on your own workplace and the particular environment you find yourself in. <\/span>With difficult situations like this, it\u2019s always better to try a subtle approach first, before moving on to any more direct route to calling out this poor attitude.<\/span><\/p>\n
It might also be worth trying to work out why your colleague has suddenly developed this poor attitude at work – is there some bigger problem that has caused this change, and does your colleague need support with that, or a friendly ear to help them work through their issues?<\/p>\n
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Script 4 | For the Party Animal<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\nI don\u2019t know how you have the time or energy to party so hard, especially when there are so many other great ways to spend your time.<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If a relative or friend seems to be spending an inordinate amount of time out partying, and it\u2019s beginning to have an effect on their health, finances or mental wellbeing, it may be time to voice your concerns in a gentle and respectful way. <\/span><\/p>\n
It\u2019s likely that they believe they are having a great time, so suggesting that going out every night is a waste of time and money is unlikely to be successful. Your mission is to show your friend or relative that there are other ways to spend your leisure time, that are healthier and more balanced. <\/span><\/p>\n
Ask them to go along to a new yoga class maybe, or arrange to host a dinner party one weekend, with all of your friends. Build on any success with further invitations to do alternative things, suggesting that you really value their support in coming along with you. <\/span><\/p>\n
Hopefully, over time, your friend or relative will start to compare the shallow pleasures of going out drinking and partying with more long-lasting enjoyment to be found from a wider range of social activities.<\/span><\/p>\n
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Script 5 | For the Love Addict<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\nDating so many new people all the time sounds like fun, but how do you give yourself enough time to meet that special person?<\/h4>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Pressure to fit in with friends and the proliferation of online dating sites mean that many people find themselves on something of a conveyor belt of new dates, constantly hooking up with yet another person, and filling their week with meaningless dates and instantly forgettable encounters. <\/span><\/p>\n
If you\u2019re concerned that someone you care about is risking their health and mental wellbeing by dating way too many people, it\u2019s time to step in and say something. But how do you do this without upsetting them, or implying that they are behaving recklessly? <\/span><\/p>\n
In the example given above, the topic is introduced in a light and supportive way – suggesting that having so many dates sounds like a lot of fun. But then comes a very subtle hint that this constant dating may lead to missing out on a really meaningful relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n
By introducing the idea that if your friend relaxes and enjoys being single, they might then meet some more suitable people to get to know, you can help get them off the dating rollercoaster, so that they can enjoy a more balanced and fulfilling social life.<\/span><\/p>\n
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It\u2019s hard to stand at the sidelines whilst someone important to you seems to make a mess of their life through poor choices, but it\u2019s also hard to find the right words to help them see for themselves what they are doing. Take time to think about your approach, and don\u2019t be tempted to spell out the negative implications of their behavior, in order to avoid alienating them. With a little gentle persuasion, using these templates as a guide, you should be able to get your message across.<\/span><\/p>\n
At Never the Right Word, our aim is to give you practical examples of how to handle life\u2019s difficult conversations. If you have an awkward situation that you\u2019d like example templates for, request a topic here<\/b><\/span><\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u00a0<\/p>\n
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