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Whether it is a d\u00e9mod\u00e9 sweater from your aunt, an unappealing destination your husband has picked for your surprise weekend getaway, a useless Holiday gift from your boss, or the way they treat you at work, it is never easy to say that you dislike something without causing offense.<\/p>\n
However, you can be considerate, respectful, and polite, and still let someone know that you dislike their actions. The best way to let someone know about your dislikes is to be assertive. An assertive approach to communication means being direct about what you want, need, like, or dislike but expressing yourself respectfully.<\/strong><\/p>\n
This communication skill can improve your relationships, boost your confidence, and help reduce or avoid conflicts. It can also help you express your dislike courteously and thoughtfully.\u200b<\/p>\n
Assertiveness is a skill that we learn. Practice being assertive. After you decide to be assertive rather than aggressive or passive, start practicing it. Be open and remember to respect people when you\u2019re sharing your needs, opinions or dislikes.<\/p>\n
When expressing a dislike, never make other people feel guilty. Stay calm and say what you dislike and why you dislike it without any guilt trips or accusations.<\/p>\n
If expressing a dislike in person, pay attention to your body language as much as you pay attention to what you say. Avoid using negative phrases such as \u201cyou never\u201d or \u201cyou always\u201d. Use \u201cI feel\u201d statements instead.<\/p>\n
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\nDear [Insert Name],<\/strong><\/h5>\n
I just wanted to send my thanks for coming over for dinner last Friday night. It was nice to spend some time together. I think we should get together more often, as I had a really great time. I hope that you enjoyed the evening too.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/h5>\n
I really appreciate that you went out of your way to get me a gift. The cardigan you gave me looks really special and it means a lot that you thought of me. However, I believe that the new fashion trend of long cardigans is not for me. As you know, I\u2019m not very tall and it feels like those cardigans somehow make me look even shorter. I did give it a try because I loved the color but couldn\u2019t help finding my looks non-appealing. <\/strong><\/h5>\n
Once again, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I hope I don\u2019t come across as rude, but I was wondering if you\u2019d maybe like the cardigan back. I think it would look wonderful on you! So, let me know, please. Once again, thank you for coming by. I hope we can do it again soon.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
This script can help you tell your friend or a family member that you dislike the gift without offending them. In the first part of the script, you are appreciating their company and then moving on to the subject. You are accentuating the positive sides of the gift and giving a reason for disliking it.<\/p>\n
Offering to let them have the gift back is okay if you know the gift is something they would use or wear themselves. most people will decline it out of courtesy, but that\u2019s okay. Finally, you\u2019re ending the conversation on a friendly note, which is always good.<\/p>\n
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Script 2 | I’m Not Fond of It<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\nHey [Insert Name],<\/strong><\/h5>\n
Just writing to say thank you for inviting me to the movies on Saturday night. It\u2019s been a long time since our last night out! Yes, I\u2019ve heard a lot about the newest Joker and can completely understand why all the fuss about it. However, I have to say that I\u2019m not quite fond of that kind of movies. I find some thrillers too upsetting and always feel uncomfortable after watching them.<\/strong><\/h5>\n
I would still love to spend some time together though. So, I was thinking, maybe we can plan something else together for Saturday night? Or we can catch up after the movie if you still want to go. Please let me know what would you like to do.<\/strong><\/h5>\n
Love, <\/strong><\/h5>\n
[Your Name]<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
You appreciate your friend\u2019s invitation, but declining it politely with an explanation of why you don\u2019t feel like going. You\u2019re offering other possibilities as you would still like to spend time with your friend.<\/p>\n
Not to be fond of something means that you don\u2019t like it with a little extra emotion. This is a quite informal script that you can use to say a friend that you dislike something without causing them to feel offended. You are ending the message with the invitation to get together, letting the person know that you appreciate their company.<\/p>\n
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