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It can be extremely easy to avoid discussing difficult topics altogether. In today’s increasingly easily offended world, it can be scary to express your opinions on taboo topics even though open discussion can often lead to progression.<\/strong> We see some of the unfortunate souls who dare share their opinions get berated on the internet and we think, nope, not worth it!<\/p>\n
But what about situations where we have no choice but to talk about uncomfortable topics? Maybe we’re missing out on vital information that affects our finances because we’re afraid to talk about money for example.<\/strong><\/p>\n
Perhaps a friend wants to uncover the reasons why they have self-destructive habits but they feel they can’t openly talk about their issues. Sometimes avoiding the very conversation we don’t want to have is holding us back in life.<\/p>\n
Whether it’s about sexuality, money, religion, or politics if we can be honest with our communities, then how do we expect to progress?<\/p>\n
This doesn’t mean we have to blast our sordid secrets to everyone or force others to have difficult conversations with us if they don’t want to, but perhaps we can equip ourselves with the right mindset and conversation skills to handle talking about taboo topics in respectful and constructive ways.<\/p>\n
We’ve outlined 7 examples below of how you can safely discuss taboo topics without causing offense.<\/strong> As with all types of conversations, it can be difficult to predict the responses of others, and whilst the examples below are well-thought-out and tactful, there will always be some people who choose to take offense.<\/p>\n
We advise that you read the verbal and non-verbal cues of others when talking about sensitive issues, these examples aim to offer you suggestions of how to put your best foot forward:<\/p>\n
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\nIf you’re happy to talk about this with me, I’d like to see the world from your perspective.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
\nHow does that make you feel?\/…and that makes you feel?<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
\nWhat do you think would have to change in order for you\/others to feel better?<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
With mental health becoming an important issue in today’s society, it would benefit us all if we can create safe spaces to openly discuss what’s really going on. Unfortunately, mental health is still considered a topic that shouldn’t be openly spoken about, leaving many who suffer from problems to suffer in silence.<\/p>\n
In the U.S. 1 in 5<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0 adults experience mental illness each year and in the UK this increases to approximately 1 in 4<\/a> <\/strong>people; it’s clear to see that mental health issues affect a sizable portion of western society.<\/p>\n
Example 2 | Reserving Judgment When Talking About Sexuality<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\nWhat are your experiences as a [Insert Variable]?<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Sex is a natural human interaction. There is\u00a0nothing<\/i> wrong with being reserved when it comes to discussing ins and outs of bodies, however, sexuality should never be used against people.<\/p>\n
People shouldn’t feel ashamed for being sexual beings whether it’s to do with their preferences or behaviors and so forth, and nobody should feel shame for the natural way in which their body operates.<\/p>\n
Talking openly and honestly without judgment about sexuality is a sure-fire way of reducing the discomfort and anxieties surrounding the topic. It also gives us a barometer to detect when certain situations, behaviors, or relationships really are unhealthy and ought to be reconsidered.<\/p>\n
Disagreeing with others, listening to other perspectives and experiences is how we all learn.<\/p>\n
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